S3 CES ยท 3.1.2.3 Sexual Fantasies & Impulses
S3 CES Classroom Objectives
Module 3.1 ยท Part 2 (3.1.2.3)

Lesson Objectives

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1
Spot 3 Risky Situations
Reveal โ–พ
โ€ข ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ”’
Quiet places alone
โ€ข ๐Ÿ“ฑ๐Ÿ”ž
18+ videos & websites
โ€ข ๐Ÿซ‚โŒ
Close physical touch
2
Learn 4 Ways to Cope
Reveal โ–พ
โ€ข
4 Ways:
โ—ฆ ๐Ÿ›‘โœ‹
Set limits of intimacy
โ—ฆ ๐Ÿ“ต๐Ÿ”ž
Stay away from pornography
โ—ฆ ๐Ÿšช๐Ÿƒ
Avoid quiet places
โ—ฆ ๐Ÿ€๐Ÿšด
Join healthy activities
โ€ข
[ care ] + [ way to cope ] + [ suggestion ]
3
Learn about the values of:
Reveal โ–พ
โ€ข ๐Ÿ’ช
Self-Discipline (Control desires)
โ€ข ๐Ÿค
Respect for Others
โ€ข ๐Ÿ›ก๏ธ
Responsibility
โ€ข โš–๏ธ
Law-abidingness
1. Pre-Task ยท Worksheet Part 1

3 Risky Situations & 4 Ways to Cope

๐Ÿ’ญ Key Words (Normal in Puberty)

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๐Ÿ’ญ Sexual Fantasy
Reveal โ–พ
๐Ÿง ๐Ÿ’ญ
Picture in mind (Normal in puberty)
โšก Sexual Impulse
Reveal โ–พ
๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ”ฅ
Strong body desire in a risky situation
๐Ÿ’ช How to Handle Both?
Reveal โ–พ
๐Ÿ›‘๐Ÿ’ช
Control desires with Self-Discipline & Respect!

๐Ÿ›ก๏ธ 4 Ways to Cope & 4 Reasons [ reason ]

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A. Set limits of intimacy
Reveal โ–พ
๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ›‘
True love respects limits (Under 16 = illegal)
B. Stay away from pornography
Reveal โ–พ
๐Ÿ“ตโŒ
18+ media gives wrong ideas about love
C. Avoid quiet places
Reveal โ–พ
๐Ÿ โš ๏ธ
Being alone in a quiet place is unsafe
D. Join healthy activities
Reveal โ–พ
๐Ÿ€โšก
Sports & hobbies use our energy well
Quiet flat vs public cafe
Q1 ยท Risky Situation: Quiet Place

1. Empty flat or locked room alone

Refusing 18+ phone media
Q2 ยท Risky Situation: 18+ Media

2. Partner shows 18+ video on phone

Setting limits of intimacy
Q3 ยท Risky Situation: Close Touch

3. Partner touches or kisses too closely

Healthy sports and cycling
Q4 ยท Risky Situation: Restless Energy

4. Bored and full of restless energy

Setting limits when pressured to prove love
Q5 ยท Risky Situation: Prove Your Love

5. Partner says "Touch me to prove your love"

Avoiding dark quiet park corner
Q6 ยท Risky Situation: Quiet Park at Night

6. Sit in a dark, quiet park corner at night

Closing 18+ website on tablet
Q7 ยท Risky Situation: 18+ Website

7. Link to an 18+ adult website on tablet

Joining healthy sports and group hobbies
Q8 ยท Risky Situation: Daydreaming Alone

8. Daydreaming alone with nothing to do

2. While-Task ยท Worksheet Part 2 & Part 3

CES SoftSpeak Activity

๐ŸŽฎ Open CES SoftSpeak โ†—
Demo Scenario Alex
Scenario 1 ยท Teacher Demo (2 Tries)
๐ŸŒง๏ธ
Alex
(Rainstorm)
Reveal โ–พ
โ€ข 1st try:Quiet empty flat
โ€ข 2nd try:Close touch in cafรฉ
Boyfriend Leon Scenario
Scenario 2 ยท Student Choice A (3 Tries)
๐ŸŽฒ
Boyfriend Leon
(Party Room)
Reveal โ–พ
โ€ข 1st try:Locked quiet room
โ€ข 2nd try:18+ video in lounge
โ€ข 3rd try:Close touch in booth
Girlfriend Chloe Scenario
Scenario 3 ยท Student Choice B (3 Tries)
๐Ÿ“š
Girlfriend Chloe
(Project)
Reveal โ–พ
โ€ข 1st try:Quiet empty bedroom
โ€ข 2nd try:18+ tablet site in cafรฉ
โ€ข 3rd try:Quiet park at dusk

๐Ÿ“‹ Pair Steps (Worksheet Part 2 & Part 3)

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1
Pick Leon or Chloe
Reveal โ–พ
โ˜‘๏ธ
Tick Scenario 2 (Leon)
or Scenario 3 (Chloe)
2
Refuse Politely (3 Tries)
Reveal โ–พ
๐Ÿ’ฌ
Use [ care ] + [ way to cope ]
+ [ suggestion ] (Be polite!)
3
Get AI Grade (Sโ€“D)
Reveal โ–พ
๐Ÿ†
Circle your Grade (Sโ€“D)
& copy AI Coach Comment
๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ Teacher Demo & Pair Guide โ€” How to Reply Politely (Worksheet Part 2):
๐Ÿ‘† Click to Reveal / Hide
โœ๏ธ How Should We Say It? Tap to Build: [ care ] + [ way to cope ] + [ suggestion ]
Reveal โ–พ
1. [ care ], ... (Be polite & warm โ€” don't scold rudely!)
2. ...but we should [ way to cope ] because [ reason ].
3. Let's [ suggestion ] instead! (Distract with a safe place or sport!)
"I care about you, but we should avoid quiet places because being alone in a quiet place is unsafe. Let's go to a bright public cafรฉ instead!"
๐Ÿ›ก๏ธ 4 Ways to Cope (Write These on Worksheet Part 2)
Reveal โ–พ
โ€ข ๐Ÿ›‘
Set limits of intimacy (e.g. respect my limits)
โ€ข ๐Ÿ“ต
Stay away from pornography (e.g. turn off 18+ video)
โ€ข ๐Ÿšช
Avoid quiet places (e.g. go to a public cafรฉ / library)
โ€ข ๐Ÿ€
Join healthy activities (e.g. play basketball / sports / cycle)
3. Post-Task ยท Worksheet Part 4

Results & Values

Bad Ending Clinic Regret
Worksheet Part 4 Q1 ยท Bad Ending (Grade D)

๐Ÿ’” 4 Results of Not Controlling Impulses

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1. Emotional Distress ๐Ÿ˜”
Reveal โ–พ
๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ’”
Very sad, scared & guilty
โ€ข
Broken trust
2. Unplanned Pregnancy ๐Ÿผ
Reveal โ–พ
๐Ÿคฐ๐Ÿผ
Having a baby too young
โ€ข
Not ready!
3. STD Infections ๐Ÿฅ
Reveal โ–พ
๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿฆ 
Serious body sickness
โ€ข
Sexually transmitted (STDs)
4. Family & Legal Trouble โš–๏ธ
Reveal โ–พ
๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿ‘ง๐Ÿ‘ฎ
Parents sad & worried
โ€ข
Under 16 = Illegal!
Worksheet Part 4 Q2 ยท Values Education

๐ŸŒŸ 4 Key Values Practised Today

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Value 1
๐Ÿ’ช Self-Discipline
Reveal โ–พ
๐Ÿ›‘๐Ÿ’ช
Control strong desires
โ€ข
Perseverance
Value 2
๐Ÿค Respect for Others
Reveal โ–พ
๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿค
Respect limits
โ€ข
Speak kindly with care
Value 3
๐Ÿ›ก๏ธ Responsibility
Reveal โ–พ
๐Ÿฅ๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿ‘ง
Protect health & future
โ€ข
Care for our family
Value 4
โš–๏ธ Law-abidingness
Reveal โ–พ
๐Ÿ‘ฎโš–๏ธ
Obey HK law (Age 16)
โ€ข
Act with propriety
Conclusion ยท Summary

4 Ways & 4 Values

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A
Set Limits of Intimacy
Reveal โ–พ
Value: Respect for Others
B
Stay Away from Pornography
Reveal โ–พ
Value: Self-Discipline (Perseverance)
C
Avoid Quiet Places
Reveal โ–พ
Value: Responsibility & Law-abidingness
D
Join Healthy Activities
Reveal โ–พ
Sports โ€ข Cycling โ€ข Volunteering
Set limits of intimacy
Stay away from pornography
Avoid quiet places
Join healthy activities